I have to figure out what it is that I want.
That is the key to fulfillment.
Desire is fueled by it.
I want a strong, motivated man that will lead much of the time- except in my own business- he will support from the sidelines and push me to grow intomy best version and plan for success.
I want someone with whom I can dream, discuss and collaborate with to create a future beyond my own thinking.
I want someone who knows pain and pushes through it, observing themselves, so as to grow and learn to love themselves, fully.
I want someone who's upbeat and open minded, so that I may be absolutely, FULLY myself- no holding back.
This well is deep.
I want someone who can fully comprehend and not judge what kind of life I have chosen for myself, the lessons I am learning because of those choices - and the full scope of how hard I have had to work to get where I am, and where Im heading.
I've barely scratched the surface of my goals and I cannot get sidetracked by a relationship that might take me, or my time, from those goals that are my purpose in life.
So, for any man that wants to be with me, he will not be running the entire show- he will be in the background lifting me and supporting me spiritually, emotionally and physically
100% guiding me gently to elevate myself, seeing me and my potential- desiring that I reach it with him... because behind every strong woman is a man that wants her to reach her full potential.
Autonomy and interdependence is absolutely the key to any relationship I might entertain.
Anything less is unacceptable.
Never getting in her way, but rather- helping lay the path. Together.
~Vera
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